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Do The Right Thing

This week, I spent some time with a friend of mine who needed help packing up her house before it sold. This dear woman is going through what I’d call a Bad Time, and I was happy to be able to do anything I could.

Now, we all go through Bad Times now and again. It’s part of the human experience. Some of those come to us because of our own actions, and others are merely circumstantial. But for my friend, she’s going through this Bad Time simply because of another person’s selfishness.

There were a group of us there, and someone asked about taking nails down from the walls, where pictures had been hung. My friend asked what we should do: leave them for the new owners or take them down? Our other friend said, “We should take them down and spackle the holes and then touch up with paint. It’s the right thing to do.”

And my friend going through the Bad Time nodded and agreed, “It’s the right thing to do.”

I was struck by the fact that this person, who’d had serious Wrong done to her, in the midst of her pain, still did The Right Thing.

We see people doing The Right Thing all around us, if you keep your eyes open. When the Pope stops to bless a child on the side of the road, he’s doing The Right Thing. When a woman sitting on the airplane senses the anxiety of the young mom next to her whose baby is screaming and reaches out to help, she’s doing The Right Thing. When you’re standing in line in the grocery story, with a large order, and the man behind you has two items, you do The Right Thing and let him go first.

It’s easy to see the wrong things. It’s easy to do the wrong things. In the last weeks, I’ve seen some of this, when authors treat other publishing professionals and/or fellow authors poorly. I don’t like it. It makes me cranky.

Let’s make a point of seeing The Right Things. And please, DO The Right Thing. Not because you’ll get rewards or applause or recognition, but simply because it IS The Right Thing.

And there’s my Thursday sermon. Go forth and be awesome.

Hallowpalooza Is Here!

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Hey, y’all!

I’ve got a treat for you. I’m one of the sponsors of the Night Owl Reviews HALLOWPALOOZA Scavenger Hunt.

During this event I’m going to help you find some great new books. Make sure to check out my featured title DEATH FRICASSEE along the way.

The grand prize is a $100 Amazon Gift Card. The total prize pool is $1,000 with 113 winners.

Enter Now at: https://www.nightowlreviews.com/v5/Blog/Articles/Hallowpalooza-2015

Good luck and happy HALLOWPALOOZA!!

Tawdra’s Releases in 2015

October 6th: It’s A Ghoul Thing (Halloween Anthology featuring Unforgettable) http://tiny.cc/GhoulThingZon/http://tiny.cc/GhoulThingiBooks

October 20th: The Shadow Bells (A Serendipity Christmas Short) 

October 27th: Death A La Mode (Recipe for Death Book 2) http://tiny.cc/DALMZon/http://tiny.cc/DALMiBooks

November 10th–The One Trilogy Box set (featuring The Perfect One, Alex and Cal’s story)

November 17th: Christmas Anthology featuring Underneath My Christmas Tree  http://tiny.cc/XmasAnt15iBooks/http://tiny.cc/XmasAnt15Zon 

November 24th–Always For You (Always Love Book 1)

Speak Up. Reach Out. Offer Hope.

 

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{I’m privileged and honored to be included in Snarktember, a month-long party on Snarky Mom Reads. Please go over and visit Snarky Mom Reads, read my essay on World Suicide Prevention Day, enter the giveaways (both mine and the BIG one) and leave her some love.}

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. I hate that we have to create a day like this; hate that we need to talk about stopping people from choosing to end their own lives.

WSPDAYsiteimagesBut we do.

Suicide is never a viable answer. It’s never a good solution, because it is not a solution at all.

There are a million reasons why someone might feel compelled to take this drastic action. In my own family experience, I’ve known people who committed suicide because they feared a horrible health issue, or because they were being bullied, mistreated by their peers, or because they suffered from mental illness.

For every reason there might be to consider ending a life, there are trillions more not to do it.

You can be part of the solution. Speak up: talk to friends and family, reminding them that you’re a listening ear and willing shoulder. Reach out: if you sense anyone in your life or who crosses your path might be considering ending his or her life, don’t keep silent. Say something. Don’t worry about looking silly or feeling stupid. And offer hope: speak life to others, speak encouragement, tell them that each day offers new promises.

If you are struggling with anything that is making you consider suicide, please don’t. There are people who want to help, resources open to you and places to turn.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

1 (800) 273-8255

Lifeline Crisis Chat

To Write Love On Her Arms

And there’s always me. I’m willing to talk to you. You can get to me via this site, or email me at ttk467@mac.com. Message me on Facebook. I’ll keep whatever you tell me confidential, and I’ll listen.

It would break my heart if anyone reading this felt there was no one to help or to listen. WSPsite2images

Help is available. Hope is real. Life is sacred. You matter. No one else can play your part.

 

 

Preorder Giveaway

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THE PATH

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The Path, A Crystal Cove Romance #3, comes out Tuesday, August 25th. Preorder byKindle Fire HD 6 11:30 PM EDT on August 24th, fill out this form, and you’ll be eligible to win a Kindle Fire HD 6 8GB!

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Abby Donavan came to the small beach community of Crystal Cove to start over. After a painful affair broke her heart and derailed her burgeoning career, taking over management for the just-opened bed-and-breakfast was the safe choice. In this sleepy town, Abby figured she could bury her memories and forget the pain.

When the chance to have her own hotel falls into her lap, though, she can’t resist the temptation. Making the old Riverside Inn into the showplace she’s always dreamed of running offers the second chance she never expected.

Abby didn’t expect another kind of second chance to land on her doorstep at the same time. Ryland Kent wants to help her bring the Riverside back to life, and his passion for restoration is irresistible. But as much as she wants to ignore it, she can’t help seeing another spark in his eyes . . . one that offers to reignite her own flame.

Sometimes the path to a happily-ever-after is anything but smooth.

 

 

 

 

Winner will be announced September 15, 2015. No purchase necessary; to enter without purchase, send name and address on a 4×8 paper to Tawdra Kandle, PO Box 195631, Winter Springs, FL 32719. Entry must be received by September 1, 2015.